Encourage having fun together
The foundation of positive relationships is the pleasant moments spent together. Find games that your children can play together, or turn simple household chores like washing the car or watering plants into fun joint activities. Teach them how to invite each other to play and how to politely say 'no' when they don't want to.
Understanding Different Perspectives
Teach children that everyone can have different thoughts and feelings. You can take the first steps toward empathy with simple examples like, 'You like chocolate ice cream, but your sister likes strawberry.' Encouraging them to ask each other’s opinions strengthens this bond.
Assign a positive meaning to their actions
Sometimes children may unintentionally hurt each other. In such cases, give them positive explanations. For example: "Your brother didn't break your belongings on purpose; he just wanted to play with you." This creates understanding among children, not hostility.
Teach them to manage their emotions
Anger and jealousy are natural in sibling relationships. Teach them to name their feelings: "I see that you are angry because you didn't get the toy." Suggest calming techniques for when they get angry, such as taking deep breaths or spending some time alone.
Turn conflicts into a learning opportunity
Disagreements are a school for children to learn problem-solving. Teach them the principle of 'stop, think, and talk.' Be a guide, not a judge; listen to both sides and help them find a solution together.
Being fair does not always mean being equal. Children can be sensitive when sharing parental attention. Explain to them that everyone's needs and ages are different. For example, an older child going to bed later is not unfair; it is a privilege that comes with age. These discussions reduce jealousy.
The culture of 'Family is above everything'
Set rules at home that do not allow rudeness toward each other. Encourage your children to celebrate each other's successes. Remember, friends come and go, but the bond between siblings lasts a lifetime.
